Shiloh Family Life and Wellness Services

 

Life can often seem difficult and complicated.  At these times, it can be easy to lose one’s way, to feel out of sorts, of confused about one’s future.  If you are feeling depressed, stressed, anxious or worried, confused, have difficulty with concentration or making decisions, there is hope and an answer. 

 

Shiloh Family Life and Wellness Services’ mission is to provide hope and guidance.  Services include wellness programs, parent support groups, and individual, couples, and family counseling.  For a free initial consultation or more information, contact Dr. Anita Thomas, a licensed clinical psychologist, at (847) 662-6325.

 

We take our God-given responsibility to bring comfort and healing to those individuals who have suffered a significant loss.  Because we believe the grieving process is so important, we are making sessions available at Shiloh Baptist church.  Please mark your calendar for the following Grieving and Healing Process sessions:  Click below for schedule. 

 

                                          May National Wellness Month

 

 

                     Free Help Available for Sufferers of Anxiety

 

                                               The BIGGEST Loser Contest

 

 

Wellness Model

 

The Wellness model includes five important areas of our lives: physical, intellectual, emotional, social, and spiritual (PIESS).

 

  1. v     Physical-            Appropriate diet, nutrition, and exercise, and maintaining physical health.
  2. v     Intellectual-        Maintaining and enhancing cognitive abilities
  3. v     Emotional-         Recognizing and expressing emotions
  4. v     Social-                Healthy relationships
  5. v     Spiritual-             Intimate relationship with God

 

 

 

                              Wellness

 

 

 

Psychological Services

  1. Individual counseling
  2. Children and adolescent counseling
  3. Family counseling
  4. Couples counseling
  5. Premarital counseling

 Assessment and treatment services are holistic in nature, and emphasizing wellness. 

 

 

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Parent Support Groups

The most important job that a parent has is to raise happy and healthy children. 

Sessions focus on:

  1. Child development
  2. Discipline
  3. Self-esteem
  4. Peer pressure
  5. Drugs and alcohol
  6. School achievement and behavior
  7. Relating to school systems
  8. Sibling rivalry
  9. Racial identity and racism

 

Parent support groups are ideal for:

 

  1. Single parents
  2. Couples
  3. Foster parents
  4. Grandparents
  5. Future parents

 

 

Biblical References for Emotions

 

Anger

Anger is a God-given emotion which indicates unresolved tension within a person’s spirit.  It is anger’s motives, forms of expression, and effects that determine which is appropriate.  Anger is an emotion or passion directed towards self or others in response to a real or perceived wrongdoing.                   

 

Jesus’ example-        John 2:14-16

Bitterness-                 Hebrews 12:14-15

Holding anger-           Proverbs 17:14; 19:11; 22:24-26; 26:21; 27:4-6; 29:22

                                    Ephesians 4: 26-27, 31

Slow to anger-           Ecclesiastes 7:9

                                    James 1:19-20

                                    Proverbs 14:29, 16:32; 19:11

Get rid of anger         Mark 11:25-26

                                    Colossians 3:12-13

                                    Matthew 5: 43-44

                                    I Corinthians 13:4-5

Peacemakers            Proverbs 15:1; 21:14

 

Depression

 

Depression is characterized by sadness, inactivity, difficulty in thinking and concentration, changes in eating and sleeping patterns, feelings of hopelessness, or suicidal ideation.  Depression can be caused by emotional or physical suffering, anger, or guilt.

 

Reasons for suffering

 

To teach us patience                                                James 1:3; Romans 5:3-5

To bring us to repentance                                        Hebrews 12:5-11

To bring comfort and encouragement to others    II Corinthians 1:3-6

To glorify God                                                            John 9:1-3; I Peter 4:16

To be strengthened                                                   I Peter 5:10

To teach us to rely on God                                       Psalm 30:6-8

 

Examples of Biblical figures who are depressed

 

Moses            Exodus 18

Elijah               I Kings 19

Jonah              Jonah 4

David              Psalm 69

 

Handling depression

 

Worship- Pray, sing, dance

Be active

Engage in social activities

Exercise

Change the way you talk to yourself

Join a support group

Eat small meals throughout the day

Identify depression triggers

 

Coping

 

Romans 8

Psalm 27

 

Anxiety

 

Fear is an emotion of alarm in reaction to a real or perceived threat or danger.  Anxiety is a general, long-term feeling of uneasiness or restlessness.  Worry is the mental action of thinking over fears or contemplating worse case scenarios.

Common fears include potential disasters, losing control, being revealed for who we are, disappointing people, being rejected, facing the past, failure, making decisions and choices, and changes in our relationship with God.

 

 

Handling fear

 

II Timothy 2:7

Psalm 23; 29; 34:4; 37; 56:3; 91; 121

Isaiah 41:13; 43:1; 44:2

Matthew 6: 25-34

John 14:25-31

Philippians 4: 6-9

 

Focus on the solution                        Matthew 14:22-23

Give God the worry                           1 Peter 5:6-7

Focus on God and not worry            Isaiah 26:3-4

Direct energy to source of hope      Psalm 9:9:10; Romans 5:3-5

 

 

Source: Insight for Living, Counseling Ministry.  Counseling insights: A Biblical perspective on caring for people.  Anaheim, CA: Insight for Living.

 

For free tips on handling emotional difficulties from a Biblical perspective, visit New Life Ministries website for free tips.

 

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